Picture the Universe;it is completely ruled by physics, from gravity to falling in love but did you know that? of course you didn’t and that’s probably because you have been made to believe you could defy the laws of physics like you would in a spacecraft and beat gravity to make it out of earth but what happens after escaping earth’s gravitational field?
Exactly, so dating is like that too- you could get a head start by texting, chatting or whatever you call it, some even go as far as sending countless and endless emails as if it were a job or some sort of life saving NGO, In the end they meet up in person and realise it was all for nothing simply because they tried to go around physics.
Like with escaping earth’s gravitational pull using rocket boosters you will again have to face the wrath of the laws of physics and as such there is no escaping the laws.
Enter Chemistry;
Online dating has fast become the most common way of meeting and getting to know people. It’s fun and gives you a massive range to choose from. No matter how much online dating evolves, it still has to play by the rules and chemistry is rule number one.
Chemistry is a determining factor in love, life and well pretty much every kind of human interaction. But how deep does it go in the online dating world? Does it really determine those potential matches? How much should it be considered when someone is reading a potential match’s bio on an online dating service?
Chemistry in a relationship is often referred to as a spark between two people on their first or maybe second or third interaction. This spark happens in real life but does it even matter in today’s online dating where our little devices essentially rule our actual behaviour?
To be continued ****
By Cara Aniekan